I have been thinking about the woman whose husband died in the attacks of 9/11. Her husband communicates with her by leaving coins with significant dates on them for her to find. The story brought to mind the many people who have asked me if Bart has made contact with us. The answer: no. In fairness, he knows very well that we don’t live in the type of house where we’d even notice a stray coin on the couch or kitchen counter. A hundred dollar bill or brick of gold, maybe; a coin, not likely.
But a couple of months ago, my son answered the question a little differently. He said that he could feel his father when he is is working on something he is passionate about, when he is painting or writing or performing; that’s when Bart feels close by. His words were a revelation. Yes, this is also my experience. On the good days, Bart is just with me, smiling at the world, seeing through my eyes, touching with my hands, embracing life through my willingness. On the good days, there are coins everywhere and every date is significant.
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